Play Time

My girls fight all the time never agreeing on the same thing while playing with each other, but there are few games that they play together...one is the house game...they build a house with all the available Pillows in the house making them as walls so that each one gets a room.

Another thing that fascinates them is dressing up. All my Duppattas have been used by them as i have a big collection of them. When i give away my old salwars, i don't give the Duppattas and so i have a large stock of it. My girls have fun using them as sarees or dressing up in any other fashion. 'G'(yunger one) always want to dress up just like 'L' and so i have to make sure that they both get the same colour dupatta most of the time. Sometimes I don't check on what they play as i think that they should have their own space and solve their own arguments. While playing ,there r umpteen number of times when 'L' bosses up 'G'.

The other day, after my elder girl(L) came from school, she saw a duppatta lying on the sofa.
Immediatly she told told 'G' to kneel down and pray as how they do in the church. L went into the bedroom with the Duppatta. I was continuing with my work as I really didn't understand , what my girls were playing. I even asked 'L' why she was giving punishment to 'G'. 'G' kneels down on the carpet happily and starts singing aloud in some unknown language as she ususally does when she pretends, as if she's singing in church. Around 3-4 minutes later(probably fedup of singing alone), 'G' calls out " WHere is the bride aunty"? L comes running out from the bedroom in her halfdress and Duppatta on her head as the veil of the bride....It was only then that I understood that they were enacting a marriage ceremony in church. I was amused watching my girls play the rest of the scenes.

Tip of the Day

Do investment in MFs by directly approaching AMCs, thereby saving on the entry load.

Keep Learning

Dear Friends,

thank u all for ur overwhelming response....i never thot that I would get such tremendous support from the time i started my blog.....thanx once again.

I will be putting in posts only on alternate days from now on....if i do have anything interesting ,i would break that rule too. ....:)

If any of u desire to learn something but feel thats its impossible......think of it once again!.....If God is with u, Anything is Possible !

I never thot that I would learn swimming fast, as I thot it was nearly Impossible!...in the same way, back in college..i had the desire to learn to play the guitar and i did that too...I had to put in hardwork too to learn playing (tho i do not know the basics even now). I managed to learn playing the chords with the help of a few friends( a big thanx to K and R) .

Life is so full of stuff to learn and I don't hope to sit idle. I do hope that all of u too, would learn something new or atleast try to.

I used to have a skipping rope with me for many years which i never used. Surprisingly,now my elder daughter uses it. One day she took it out with her to play and now she's learned to use it without any help.

So to all of u out there....Keep Trying and Keep Smiling!

Tip of the Day

Mutual fund is a not a place where returns are guaranteed. Their NAVs also fall with a falling market. Many times 70% of funds falls faster than the market.

Would You ?

If there's darkness

In the world,

All round you,

Would you be that Little light,

In everybody's view?

If there's a child,

In some sort of danger,

Would you run along,

Just to save her?

If there's a Poor Lady,

who lived across the street,

Would u help her

to meet atleast one need?

If there's an old man,

Who's just fallen down,

Would you go over ,

To help him up?

If there's a tree,

Thats just been cut off,

Would you plant another,

to save mother nature?

If there's a friend,

Who's done some wrong,

Would you point fingers,

Or forgive and resolve?

If you have loved someone,

And have been deceived,

Would you just sit and cry,

Or carry on with ur life ?

If you r in despair,

And left with no care,

Would you take time to think,

Of Someone up there?

Someone who has watched you,

All these years,

And taken you thru.

Shudn't u take ,

A little of ur time,

Just to thank Him?

Exploits in Water

Its been a day of triumph for me as I finally learnt to swim today. Its been years that i've desired to learn swimming. I had made an attempt a few months back to learn swimming with a few friends(with the help of their tips) in our apmt pool and no Coach. Initially I found it hard to stay afloat by just kicking. I thought it was impossible. I used to return after great exploits in water with body aches. So much aches that i had to take a crocin an hour before i got into the pool. Then there used to be blunders as we(me and another friend of mine who too was learning) used to close our eyes and struggle to swim across. On opening our eyes we would find that we had swam diagonally and not straight. I had to travel to my native in betwn and these water exploits got abandoned.
I got a chance again, a week back, to learn, coz a friend was going to the Pool daily for a swim. I took this opportunity to learn swimming again. I get some free time now since my yunger child has started school this year.Though the past few days i've only been splashing water in our apmt pool, I never thought that I would be successful since there's only been some directions from a few good friends on how to learn and some tips on breathing ,floating and basics. Not being trained by a professional didn't stand as a barrier to me as learning to swim was what I wanted to do somehow. My hardwork and Perseverance paid . And Of course, Somebody up there helped me too!
Now I need not feel J(jealous), when I watch the swimmers in the coming OLympics!

Tribute to a Virtuous Woman

Few Beautiful verses from the Bible that I like .....

Proverbs Chapter 31 verses 10 -31

10 A wife of noble character who can find?

She is worth far more than rubies.
11 Her husband has full confidence in her

and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm,

all the days of her life.
13 She selects wool and flax

and works with eager hands.
14 She is like the merchant ships,

bringing her food from afar.
15 She gets up while it is still dark;

she provides food for her family

and portions for her servant girls.
16 She considers a field and buys it;

out of her earnings she plants a

vineyard.
17 She sets about her work vigorously;

her arms are strong for her tasks.
18 She sees that her trading is profitable,

and her lamp does not go out at night.
19 In her hand she holds the distaff

and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
20 She opens her arms to the poor

and extends her hands to the needy.
21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household;

for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
22 She makes coverings for her bed;

she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is respected at the city gate,

where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them,

and supplies the merchants with sashes.
25 She is clothed with strength and dignity;

she can laugh at the days to come.
26 She speaks with wisdom,

and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
27 She watches over the affairs of her household

and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise and call her blessed;

her husband also, and he praises her:
29 "Many women do noble things,

but you surpass them all."
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;

but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
31 Give her the reward she has earned, and

let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

A Typical Study Time

The coming 2 weeks are exam time for my elder girl and I am having a hard time breaking my jaw. The excuses to sit in one place and study are numerous. It takes time for her to take the right book to write. When I give a pencil ,it has to be sharpened. When i give it sharpened ,she wants an eraser. By the time we find an eraser(there are around 20 erasers scattered all over the house), her book falls down. She picks it up slowly and then starts to write. Suddenly she feels thirsty and asks me if she can have some water. I try to advice her to write some more and then take a break, but she's adamant. I don't want to spend time arguing with her( as we do it all the time),so I tell her to go have it.

In between she goes to chk on her yunger sister if she got anything special from dad while she was sitting to study. If she has got something new then its time to fight for her rights. SHe comes back and writes again, then we find the eraser has gone missing again. It would have fallen down. Again all of us have to search for it. Dad would be watching TV. She would want to hear that song which is being played and so she needs to go to the toilet so that she can have a peep at the TV . Again I have to excuse her. She comes back again and to her annoyance, she sees her yunger sister sitting on her study table. Thats it! A fight happens..then its all weeping, screaming or shouting from ebody and then it takes time to settle and some soaping to make them stop crying. If there is a gap in between all these, another one of her excuses would be that she is hungry.
By then the day would almost be over. All these, requires me to use my mouth and voice and most of the time it aches. My nap in the afternoon and the Energy drink I have everyday to teach her is all used to its optimum.

Investment in Equity

If you believe in the growth story of India, you should seriously look at stocks. It’s a business with least bureaucracy. No red tape, babus and tax treatment is absolutely simple (at least for now). Through equities you can do any business. IF you believe in the future of airlines, invest in the Vijay Mallya’s company UB Holdings which owns King Fisher. And later if you think high inflations will hurt the industry and oil might be a good idea, join business with Mukesh Ambani. All you have to do is sell your UB and buy Reliance. You’ve changed your entire business with a few mouse clicks. Its so simple !!!! Is’nt it? ;-). Next I’ll tell you why tax treatment in equities is an icing in the cake.

Probably My Imagination!

It was a year after the 9/11 Blasts in the US and that was the main coz of my worry throut this following situation . WE would hear of terrorists here,terrorists there etc and then this event happened once.
We were returning from the US and on the way to BOmbay,our transit was in Paris Airport. We had to spend a few hours in Paris. When we reached there, the time was after Midnight. There were only a few people waiting for the nxt flight, otherwise the place was almost deserted. My hubby had gone to the restroom to freshen up and I was waiting there with my elder girl (who was One year old then).
One fellow who was sitting nearby was getting friendly with my elder girl. He was in his early thirties not knowing fluent English. My girl and that stranger were having fun making faces at each other. After some time ,this fellow asks me if I know Arabic...I said that I didn't. We then shifted to another place as I felt something fishy bout him .Also I had a feeling that he was following us. I was still waiting for My husband who was taking longer than Usual. Again this fellow comes and tries to be friendly. He had a shoulder bag in his hand. He suddenly says something and then leaves his bag right next to me and hurries off. I was dumbstruck.
I didn't know what to do...there were a zillion things running thru my MInd but the greatest worry was "WAS IT A BOMB?" the next thing on my mind was to flee the place....the problem was that I had to gather 3 carry bags and a child ....i somehow grabbed all the bags and my girl and rushed towards the my Husbands restroom...i thot my heart which was beating hard would come out of my mouth and burst ....luckily my husband had just came out and I explained ething to him . He told me to calm down as he thought I was imagining stuff.
We went walking back eying the bag at the same time. A few seconds later that fellow came running, took his bag and left. O MY! what a releif. I can't think of going thru a similiar situation again.

Cartoons

Kids love watching Cartoons. They have even more fun when their loved ones watch it with them. 2 weeks back we watched Mr. Bean's Holiday on HBO with our kids. It was a goofy movie, with all his well known routine comedy scenes . They had extra fun watching it together with their mom and dad. This movie didn't have much dialogues,it was more of comedy(sometimes Dull) action. Kids have some attraction towards MR.Bean I guess, even thot he's not all that goodlooking( a big pointed nose ,big eyes,flaring nostrils and not to forget,his characteristic mole). I make sure to know all cartoons they watch and ask them about the characters just to let them know that I am interested in their interests. They get excited just explaining about the characters and what they did etc .

So next time take time and watch a cartoon with ur kid and show them that u too r interested.